The Real Reasons why Charedim don't Serve
Only if we understand it can we talk about how to address it
The 2000 or so older charedim that recently decided to join the army for various limited roles is a welcome development. Yet they are still only a tiny fraction of the 150,000 that avoid serving (UPDATE: in the end, it was only a few hundred, from the fringes of charedi society). In order to decide what to do about this, it’s crucial to understand the reasons for it.
In previous posts, I analyzed popular purported reasons - that it’s because learning Torah offers more significant protection, or that learning Torah is more of a national priority. I and demonstrated that not only are they invalid, but charedim don’t actually believe in them anyway. There are, however, numerous charedi leaders who have been honest about the main reason why charedim don’t serve in the army, such as Rav Aharon Feldman and Rav Aharon Lopiansky. In order to understand this properly, it’s helpful to contrast it with the reasons why non-charedim do join the army. There are three reasons that play a role, each to a greater or lesser degree, and none of them apply to charedim:
I. Recognizing the national necessity of a draft
Anyone who grasps the responsibilities of running a country realizes that defense is something that needs to be taken seriously by everyone. Israel is a tiny country with many enemies, both outside and inside our borders. We need a large standing army and an enormous amount of reserves.
But charedim simply don’t grasp responsibilities on a large scale. Their mindset is one of a person in a small, heimish community. Most of the development of Torah and rabbinic literature happened when Jews did not have sovereignty, and did not focus on large-scale thinking. That’s one of the reasons why the Meron disaster happened - charedim just don’t grasp that running an event for hundreds of thousands of people requires a whole different level of safety and planning and professional guidance and compliance with international standards. Likewise, they don’t think at all about how the mass kollel movement and the lack of secular education will impact the national economy as the charedi population rapidly grows. Their political representatives are focused on what they can get for their community, not on what the country needs.
II. Feeling social responsibility to the nation
For secular and religious Zionists, responsibility to the State of Israel and to the nation is a major factor in the difficult task of serving in the army. We are citizens of the State, we feel part of Am Yisrael, and this is our obligation. How can we not share the burden? And for the Dati-Leumi community, it’s also a religious obligation; as Moshe Rabbeinu said to the Bnei Gad and Reuven, if they do not share the burden of fighting, they will have sinned both to the people and to God.
Charedim, on the other hand, just aren’t part of the nation to the same extent. They do not identify as Zionists, they isolate and insulate themselves from the wider public, and they are, by nature, a distinct sub-community. Moshe Rabbeinu’s argument to the Bnei Gad and Reuven, “Shall your brothers go to war and you remain here?” rings so true to non-charedim, but just doesn’t have the same impact with charedim, who don’t really see themselves as part of one family in the same way.
In fact, certain extreme charedi rabbinic authorities, such as Rav Dov Landau and Rabbi Yitzchak Morgenstern, are opposed to charedi yeshiva students even praying for the welfare of soldiers specifically and dedicating Torah study in their merit. Connecting with soldiers in any way risks blurring the boundaries.
III. Personal benefits vs. personal costs
The army enables enormous personal growth, and plays a major role in why Israelis are so successful. Conversely, the risks of physical harm are relatively low (at least, before October 7th). Secular Israelis are not concerned about spiritual harm. It bothers Religious Zionists, but they either choose hesder, or are more swayed by the previous two reasons that we mentioned, or are more interested in the spiritual benefits of serving in the army than the spiritual risks.
For charedim, on the other hand, the benefits are irrelevant, because the costs are prohibitive. And it’s not (as I previously mistakenly thought) about the risks of them becoming non-religious, because they could create hesder frameworks in which such a risk is negligible. Rather, it’s the cost of losing their controlled charedi society.
The world of the army is completely different from the carefully sheltered environment of the charedi world and reflects contrary values, such as feeling part of the nation as a whole. Most National-Religious young men can finish hesder with as strong an identity as when they started, if not stronger; the same would probably not be the case for charedim. Charedim would lose allegiance to traditional insulated sources of authority and practice and dilute their passion for being charedi.
Now, while this makes charedi opposition to serving in the IDF understandable, it is still not actually a legitimate justification. In response to Rav Aharon Lopiansky writing that “the robbing of our youths’ formative years as a ben Torah would be a price that we could not pay,” Rabbi Yitzchak Adlerstein responded pithily, “Agreed. But how do we ask other, reluctant Israelis to pay a different price so that we don’t have to pay ours?” There is, of course, no answer to that question.
Still, given all this, the idea of getting anything other than a small number of charedim into the army is simply unrealistic. And any attempt to impose it by law just wouldn’t work. There’s no point having soldiers who are totally opposed to serving, and many of them would go to prison rather than serve.
So what can be done? I’ll discuss that in another post.
Why is there no way for posts like this to exist without blatant nasty lies?
Reb Dov Landau said not to daven for soldiers?!?!?!?
And Rabbi Morgenstern, who is no major figure in Haredidom, also did not say not to daven for Israeli soldiers. For those who read the source.
The true answer is שבתך בתוך מרמה במרמה מיאנו דעת אותי. The Slifkins of the world are not mere amei ha'aretz. They are also not plain anti-vaxxers who think that ignorance is no obstacle to bombastic opinions. They are soaked and pickled in מרמה, everything they not only say, but even think and consider, is מרמה. This is why they think they can argue with Chazal without even learning, this is why they can denigrate Talmidei Chachamim without finding out what they actually said, this is why they can promote warped hashkafos with no understanding. Because במרמה מיאנו דעת אותי.
The mendacity of these posts is not a bug, it is a feature. Only with Sheker can the Slifkins of the world sleep comfortably at night.
this is an outsider's perspective. if you listen closely, the chareidim do believe they are doing their part. by learning Torah. there is absolutely nothing selfish about that. there is nothing selfish about caring about God's word. especially if God said to care about that. what you did is split up the chareidi argument into three parts, cast out the first two and totally ignore that they are one big mix of simple ideology. we feel that Torah is the proper way of life. we will not give that up easily. and if you ask, isn't that selfish? the answer is "no" - we are doing our part, as God instructed. again, there may be problems, such as focus too much on God's Torah, but these are detail issues (which may not have good solutions anyways) which any insider realizes that it's not something to dismiss. instead of demonizing the 'selfish chareidim' (though your tone was mostly fine, thank you), maybe try to appreciate our input, as we learn to appreciate the (so to speak second class) zevuluns and gads.