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Natan Slifkin's avatar

Someone asked me to post the following:

Shalom Rav Natan.

Great column, as usual!

Please add me to your growing list of people who are upset.

I know that I am not allowed to hate, and I honestly feel that I do not hate.

But I *am* upset, and I did feel let down by my Charedi brothers at the beginning of the war.

Adding to this the history of Charedi leaders' decisions in the Shoah and during Covid (just two instances), I now do not expect anything from this community. After months of serving in a reserve combat unit, I am no longer let down. I do not look with awe towards any Charedi leaders. They may be experts at *learning* Torah, but they get an F for *living* Torah. My own commander is a Rav and an amazing Talmid Chacham who teaches in a yeshiva, and the watershed post-war moments have made me change my avenue of respect. This great man has a brilliant military history, and not only knows how to *learn* Torah, but he *lives* it. These are now my role models, these great men now have my utmost respect, and while I refuse to hate my Charedi brothers, I really don't want anything to do with them...at least as long as the war is going on. They have once again missed a great chance to do a huge mitzvah, and have caused an unfathomable amount of Chilul Hashem.

You hit it right on the head: I would never confront a Charedi person and express myself!

I'll let Hashem do that (and you, too, as a faithful messenger).

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ChayaD's avatar

I am so glad that you wrote this and expressed exactly what is simmering underneath. I just had this exact conversation with someone yesterday- including mentioning the cartoon from Makor Rishon which is an honest and true portrayal of the situation. I am surrounded by wonderful, torani Dati Leumi families who have sons fighting for months, including two friends who have LOST sons, and my Anglo-Charedi family and friends continue to turn their backs on the entire situation. I too have stopped socializing with certain people because I just can no longer stomach it. The feelings of frustration, pain, and anger are very real.

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