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Natan Slifkin's avatar

It's amazing. Dozens and dozens and dozens of comments here from Charedi apologists. Yet not one of them actually addresses the point of the post. Some of them don't even seem to have the reading comprehension to understand it.

To summarize: IF, as charedim claim, their constant Torah learning is necessary to protect Israel (and that's why Gedolim constantly warn about a weakening in Torah study during Bein HaZmanim being harmful for Israel), then why do they have Bein HaZmanim at all, especially during such a dangerous time?! Instead, they should take staggered breaks, just like the army does, rather than everyone taking a break (of a month!) at the same time.

But the bigger question that I have right now is this one: How come all the charedi commentators here either did not understand that this was the point of the post, or chose not to respond to it and to instead distract with unrelated issues?

Presumably, the answer is that they do not have an answer to this post.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

So all the premises of this comment are false.

"Gedolim constantly warn about a weakening in Torah study during Bein HaZmanim being harmful for Israel"

False.

"Instead, they should take staggered breaks, just like the army does, rather than everyone taking a break (of a month!) at the same time."

Uh.... no. That would *maybe* be an argument if they didn't learn during bain hazmanim, but since they learn, and in addition are busy preparing for the mitzvos of Pesach, I am sure Hashem looks upon this Bain Hazmanim as an excellent use of time.

"How come all the charedi commentators here either did not understand that this was the point of the post, or chose not to respond to it and to instead distract with unrelated issues?'

Because we can't read your insane, twisted mind. An insane person can't expect normal people to understand what they are thinking when they dump a column of text containing their ravings.

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*****'s avatar

"are busy preparing for the mitzvos of Pesach"

Are you suggesting that mitzvos now protects, just like 'torah learning'? In that case the general exeamption from the draft can be ended because chareidim will be fullfilling the mitzvah of preventing loss of life. As well as many others.

Love the insults at the end. Insults are the refuge of the insecure, by the way.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

Yes, mitzvos protect also. And sins remove protection. So the chilonim and people like Slifkin are causing tremendous harm to the Jewish people.

What insults?! He asked a question, and I answered it like a mench. Would you rather I didn't respond to that question?

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

Great, so mitzvot protect just as well as Torah. Sounds like the Hesder recipe is correct. Physical AND spiritual protection. (AND as much Torah as they can learn)

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

I'm not sure how religious the hesderniks are (I think you are probably a good representation of the hesder ideology, which means not very religious at all), but if some of them are as religious as chareidim while still engaging in physical protection, great. That doesn't take away from the great and awesome merit that yeshiva students grant, without which, seculars such as yourself would surely not survive in such a hostile environment.

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Michael Sedley's avatar

Please don't insult Hesder Students by claiming that "some of them are as religious as chareidim" - the vast majority of them are far more "religious" than most Haredim, Hesder students are absolutely immersed in Talmud Torah, not because their society insists on it, and not for a Shidduch or any other reason, but for a 100% commitment to Torah.

They are also 100% committed to mitzvot, including the Mitzvah of defending the land - mitzvot which are completely ignored by the Haredi community.

It is possible that a percentage of the Haredi community are almost as religious as the Hesder community, and Kol Hakavod to them.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

"without which, seculars such as yourself would surely not survive in such a hostile environment"

So how did we survive in 48 and 67 and 73?

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ChanaRachel's avatar

"I'm not sure how religious the hesderniks are"

That is simply one of the biggest examples of Motzee Shem Ra on an entire community that I've heard in a long time!!!

".. in addition are busy preparing for the mitzvos of Pesach"

and what do you think DL families do, eat ham sandwiches at seder?

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Ephraim's avatar

"I'm not sure how religious the hesderniks are "

And that's the difference between living in a bubble and an isolation tank.

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Yekutiel Weiss's avatar

What makes RNS "secular" that you don't agree with him !?

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Yekutiel Weiss's avatar

Name calling !?? RNS "insane,twisted mind." What makes

you Chareidi that you insult?! What happened to your to your מוסר ספרים?!

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Normal's avatar

The answer to your question is because it is very obvious that the goal of this post is not an honest effort to effect change in bein hazmanim in order to increase Torah learning for the good of Israel. It is simply another attack on charedim. How do I know this? Because even if bein hazmanim was canceled this year and even if yeshivah students learned 24/7 and ate only bread and water and slept on the floor and relocated to learn on the front - and whatever other nonsense you and your groupies have suggested over the past six months - Even if they did all of that - guess what - YOU WOULD NOT BE SATISFIED! You would probably not be satisfied even if all charedim were drafted at the same rate as non-charedim if they and their communities didn't actually suffer casualties at the same rate as non-charedim. You don't even believe that Torah protects the same way charedim believe it so why would you be advocating for canceling bein hazmanim.

To criticize someone for something they're doing wrong, when a change in that behavior would not change your opinion of them whatsoever, is not constructive criticism - it's just hate.

So no, the "charedi apologists" do not see "the point of the post" as a call to cancel bein hazmanim, because it is not the point of the post. The point of the post is the usual point - bash charedim.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

Obviously my point is not to change bein hazmanim - I don't believe that their Torah has any protective power anyway! The point is to prove that THEY don't believe that Torah has crucial protective power.

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Normal's avatar

And if they changed bein hazmanim that would prove to you that they believe it? How would that make you any happier? would you attack them any less? We all know the answer..

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

I'll be honest, I agree to main point of the post. I even stated that below. What I commented on is that coming from you it's just an attack, not something to engage with.

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Wise Sage of Chelm's avatar

More like Iran+Hamas+Hezbolla=It's the Chareidim!

#someoneneeedstoseeatherapist

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

My counter post:

𝐈𝐫𝐚𝐧+𝐇𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐬+𝐇𝐞𝐳𝐛𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐚=𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐬!

The people who are so worked up are doing nothing

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I actually agree with Rabbi Slifkin's general point, but goodness me.

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

It's actually pretty sick. A normal Jew would write a post about the fact that we are frighteningly facing a threat from Iran which is scary beyond scary and we should be looking inward and doing teshuva (including that during bein hazmanim we should be learning and davening more etc). But Rabbi Doctor, in his blind hatred, just cares about Charedim, pointing out other people's problems and spreading more hate to the 5k subscribers. Well, is teshuva even an option by him? That's not too Rationalist. And it won't send any bullets in anyone's head cuz we don't believe in mystical manipulations. So he resorts to blaming it on Charedim. Maybe deep down he knows we are right and that it truly is up to our learning...?

Frankly, it's disgusting and nauseating. But, point taken and I will bln be giving up extra time bein hazmanim to learn more.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

"he resorts to blaming it on Charedim". I'm not blaming an Iranian attack on the charedim. I'm blaming charedim not serving in the IDF on the charedim.

"Maybe deep down he knows we are right and that it truly is up to our learning?"

Maybe the reason why you keep coming back here is that deep down you know I am right and that the charedi approach is selfish nonsense?

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Wise Sage of Chelm's avatar

"I'm blaming charedim not serving in the IDF on the charedim"

Really now, did you figure it out all by yourself? Chareidim, don't want to serve, so they don't, that's correct. You can continue screaming for the next 80 years, but nothing will change.

I highly recommend you move back to England where this whole issue won't bother you.

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Yekutiel Weiss's avatar

You don't serve so you shouldn't benefit from living here.Find some place else to live and don't take government subsidies,housing,Betuach Leumi etc..

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Wise Sage of Chelm's avatar

Ok deal.

As an American, I don't benefit much from Israel. All I get is lots of antisemitism here in America thanks to them.

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Ephraim's avatar

It's not about you.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

Thanks to the Islamists and the Marxists.

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

"I'm not blaming an Iranian attack on the charedim. I'm blaming charedim not serving in the IDF on the charedim." My point was that you write post after post which paints this awful picture of Charedim. An outsider who reads this and doesn't understand where Charedim are coming from (I suspect you ignore this too), all he sees are a group of lazy leeches. I agree that there is that aspect to those abusing the system, and the system can use a lot of fixing, as I always say, but only someone who doesn't get the system to begin with wants to tear it down, using its weaknesses as fodder to stoke the flames.

If you want to have an honest conversation here (you don't), we need to first lay out what the goal of a Torah and Mussar lifestyle is (do you even know?) and we can then try to fix the (major) kinks within. You're just being obtuse and one sided and will never concede on a single important point. Which means you yourself vilify them and all your complaints are nothing but an outgrowth of that.

"Maybe the reason why you keep coming back here is that deep down you know I am right and that the Charedi approach is selfish nonsense?" Touché ;)

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Yekutiel Weiss's avatar

There is a war, have you heard! First your obligation to serve! Your personal viewpoints aren't important! R.A.Lichtenstein stated that the obligation stems from גמילות חסדים, and the call from Moshe Rabeinu that you have a responsibility to your fellow Jews to fight for them as did גד ואשר.

A חיוב דאורייתא.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

"Blind hatred"? If that classifies as "blind hatred" in your experience, you have indeed led a charmed life. His opinions are neither hatred nor blind.

You don't score any points when you exaggerate that wildly.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

I repeat, if you think that's "blind hatred", you have clearly not experienced real hatred.

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

I obviously exaggerated. Not sure why this is a bone you wish to grind. My main point stands.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

I had this discussion already with Ezra Brand, but the obsessive hatred here is exactly the same, if not worse, than most standard anti-semitic hatred. Anti-semites also have tons of excuses for why they hate Jews, or claim they don't really hate Jews but are just criticizing.

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barry torey's avatar

saying that learning saves lives is non-falsifiable. same argument style as that of the charlatan. suggests snake oil is the product. a logical fallacy.

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

Okaaaay...

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Yekutiel Weiss's avatar

Yes. Teshuvah is the the point of his post. Enlist in Tzahal and save Jewish lives.You still don't get the point!?

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fruminIsrael2's avatar

I got the same from the chanichei yeshivos in my neighborhood. The extra times were a 9:00 and 9:30 shacharis!

I was so bothered by it that I wrote the gabbai yesterday (copied below). I've maintained a good relationship with him and to his credit, he wrote a lengthy reply to me which helped, though suffice it to say I didn't love it.

Dear Rabbi ---,

With all due respect, this title is quite distasteful. If the bochurim are the giborei chayil protecting Klal Yisrael, why are they returning home? Shouldn't the zeman be extended until next Friday?

And if they're learning is so important b/c Torah is מגנא ומצלא, why add 9:00 and 9:30 minyanim? Surely giborei chayil would start davening and learning much earlier than that?

I know many people who have lost a relative during this war, including from this neighborhood, and I think there could be much more sensitivity in how bein hazmanim is framed (though again, I fail to understand why the zeman is not being extended).

Written with pain,

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

I think most roshei yeshivos and mashgichim would agree that 9:00 and 9:30 minyanim are bad. I am curious, what did the gabbai respond?

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test's avatar

If he is like 99% of all gaboim in the world, he probably said 'that's what the 'oilam' want, and the rav said not a problem". something like that.

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fruminIsrael2's avatar

Sorry I'm just seeing this, here's his response:

לכבוד הרב חיים.

שלום וברכה,

אני מצטער שהכותרת גרם לך כאב.

שבוע שעבר היתה הועידה של איחוד בני הישיבות השנתית.

הרבה גדולי ישראל הגיעו. הרב דון סגל, הרב משה הלל הירש, הרב דוד כהן-חברון, הרב חיים פרץ ברמן, הרב גלאי וכו' וכו'.

אני חושב שכולם דיברו על תורה מגנא ומצלא. יותר חשוב שבחורים ילמדו להרבות זכוית לעם ישראל. צריכים לוחמים צריכים לימוד התורה.

הבחורים למדו שישה חודשים בלי חופש. ללמוד יומם ולילה לא קל אבל הם למדו ובזכות הלימוד של כלל ישראל היו הרבה ניסים.

הרב משה הלל הירש שליט"א בהתחלה סבר שהבחורים יאריכו הזמן אבל שארי ראשי הישיבות אמרו שהבחורים חייבים לצאת לחופש כדי שיוכלו לבנות כוחות לזמן קיץ.

צריכים מניינים בשעה 9:00 ו 9:30 בחורים לומדים מאוחר בלילה צריכים לנוח.

הרבנים שדיברו בועיד אמרו שהשנה לא לעשות טיולים. אנחנו בשעת חירום. לנוח כן . לטייל רק במקום שלא ציבורי. וכל בחור צריך ללמוד ולהמשיך לגדול, ולא לאבד מה שהשיג עד עכשיו.

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Michael Sedley's avatar

I don't understand the line ion the Torah.

Why would we Daven for the " הגיבורי חיל שחזרו הביתה" - I thought that they were davening for us or our children currently in the army?

What exactly are we supposed to pray for? That they get the correct pshat when learning, otherwise their learning will be ineffective? That they manage to get up on time for minyan? That they are not distracted by the evils in their neighborhoods?

I'm not trying to be funny - I honestly have no idea what we should include in our Tfillot.

When I daven for soldiers and hostages, I know the physical and spiritual dangers that they are in.

What specific tfillot should I add or concentrate on for the wellbeing of the valiant heroes who have left the Yeshivot so that they can relax in their parent's home?

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

For their well being. Like in yekum purkan

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test's avatar

I was predicting this....

Once an avreich boasted to me that 'unlike those ba'al habattim who take time off', they learn solidly through the Western Christmas holiday period and public holidays.

I said, ok, let's count your vacation days.

4.5 weeks nissan

around 3 weeks tishri

around 3 weeks av

So that is around 10 to 11 weeks paid vacation. 20% of the year. Without mentioning the days off when the wife is sick and needs help with the kids, paternity, early chanukoh closing, family weddings and simchos, short Fridays, need to leave before shabbos rosh chodesh nissan and fly home type days, and similar.

Compare that to the amount of paid vacation a typical ba'al habos gets. I can't just not show up at work when the wife is sick to look after the kids, or disappear for a day when my second cousin once removed gets married in a town a few hundred miles away.

He got the point.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

How much time do people get off for Christmas/Easter holidays? Unless they're teachers, it's not that much. Plus, Easter always comes out on a Sunday.

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

And they "work" on Sunday and have much longer hours.

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David Ilan's avatar

Excuse me. I work 12 hours every Sunday in the hospital while they chat over coffee.

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test's avatar

Yes, indeed. I refer to doctor's shifts below.

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

You work more than three shifts (sometimes four) a week? If yes, I don't want you taking care of me! So that's a total of 36 hours, maybe 48. A kollel guy learns at least 10 hours a day, five days a week, plus another 4 on Friday, for a minimum total of 54.

And I'm sure you are royally compensated. If not look for a better hospital.

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test's avatar

Ok, so a good hard-working professional would put in say 45 hours a week (probably a lot more). They work 54 hours a week. That is 20% more.

Out hypothetical professional say gets six weeks vacation (including all public holidays etc). So the kollel person that genuinly works 54 hours a week (not many clock up 10 hours, by the way) should get 7.5 weeks. How do you get to 11 (plus, all extras, like early chanukah, wife-sick days, need to fly home a few days before rosh chodesh nissan type days etc.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

6 weeks vacation? Not in the US. I worked in the US for many years. You start out at 10 days vacation and it doesn’t go up that much. Now let’s consider Yom Tov. Take this year.

Pesach is Tuesday and Wednesday, and then Monday and Tuesday. That’s 4 days. Then Shavuos is Wednesday and Thursday another 2 days. Rosh Hashana is Thursday and Friday and then Succos is again Thursday and Friday. So just Yom Tov this year requires a professional to use 12 vacation days. Now include Purim, Tisha bav that’s 14 days. So you have zero vacation days to actually do anything. Additionally, 2-3 months a year shabbos starts really early so you need to leave work at 2:30. You need an accommodating boss and of course to make up the time.

So no, the kollel schedule is infinitely easier.

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test's avatar

Of course it - but resolving all those difficult Shachs is very stressful :) We just don't get it.

In the UK, there are 8 public holidays, plus a professional at a senior level may get 27-30 workdays days, to cater for long workdays they are expected to put in.

How can you take off all YT with only 10 vacation days!

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Ephraim's avatar

"You start out at 10 days vacation and it doesn’t go up that much."

I never got 10 days. Most started at 5, and one started at zero.

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

I agree that vacation shouldn't be that long.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

In Israel kollel is 5 days a week Monday-Thursday 7.5 hours a day. Then there is separate night kollel of 1-2 hours.

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Ephraim's avatar

Should night kollel count towards the number of hours? Many working people manage to squeeze in night (and pre-שחרית) learning into their schedule.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

Good point. I learned in a night kollel many years while working during the day.

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Avraham marcus's avatar

Includes sunday

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Marty Bluke's avatar

Yes my mistake. It’s Sunday - Thursday

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test's avatar

Why do they have longer hours?

Typical hours for morning seider - say 9.30 to 1.

Afternoon: 3 - 7

So that is 7.5 hours a day. Many ba'alei battim work far more hours a day.

Even so, there are professions, pilots, doctors in hospitals who work incredibly long shifts, and no, they do not get 11 weeks vacation a year.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

Hospital nurses work 8.5 hours per shift, at least in Israel. Very little slack time. If you're lucky, you might be able to grab a quick bite in the break room.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

If you add up the total hours learned by average kollel students, they definitely come in higher on average than the vast majority of professions.

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test's avatar

So consider something besides the professions. Some worker's shifts can be 10/11/12 hours. And they don't get 11 weeks paid vacation.

Stop being an apologetic here. There is nothing kollel people do that merits them 11 weeks paid vacation, plus all the extras.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

Whataboutism. Kollel students work very hard, for a fraction of the pay that everybody else gets. They even work during their vacations. Stop disagreeing with me. Just agree with me, because you are wrong.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

They don't "work" at all. And it's interesting that you haven't responded to the actual point of the post. As usual.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

"Work" consists of performing a service or producing goods for which someone pays money. Learning is challenging, not slacking off can be challenging, even grueling, but it is not "work".

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Dovid Dov's avatar

Kollel students are on full time vacation. Don't work. Welfare class leeches.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

Having done both they don’t work any harder or longer than people working in hi tech.

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Ephraim's avatar

"Whataboutism"

No. The question is very simple. Does working 40-50 hours a week justify so generous a vacation schedule? And the answer is, generally no. Now there are professions where generous time off is vital to performance. Surgeons, pilots and workers in areas where any mistake is intolerable should be given proper time off. Teachers, who we don't want burnt out and thereby shortchange their student's lives should be given enough time to recuperate. For the rest of us, we'll have to do with two weeks a year until we retire.

So what would happen if the kolley guy gets only two weeks off in ניסן? What will be the cost to his performance? You think he'll conflate a סטנסיל with a מרחשת and in consequence everyone will have to kasher and dispose everything in their kitchen and be declared ממזרים? Why does he need to pampered (in this regard alone) at a time when he insists he's performaning a vital service to the nation's security?

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

Those who work 12 hour shifts are usually working a maximum of 3 or 4 shifts a week. And cash in a ton of money to make it worth it.

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Dovid Dov's avatar

dreamer or liar

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

I don't think only until 1 is standard. And night seder.

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test's avatar

Many kollelim do not have a night seider.

Any in any event, there are numerous professions, pilots, lorry drivers, doctors in hospitals who work incredibly long shifts, and no, they do NOT get 11 weeks vacation a year.

Stop being apologetic. Firstly, the Av bein hazmanin is new, it did not exist historically, and secondly, the system comes from a time when travel was much more expensive and lengthier.

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

I'm not being apologetic. I don't think they should have such a long Ben Hazmanim. But most of those people you refer to have longer breaks in between shifts and besides, they are making a pompous truckload of money to make it worth it. So please.

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test's avatar

I see, are you suggesting kollel people's learning amount is connected with the amount of money they receive? Let's not go there.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

Standard kollel in Israel is 7.5 hours a day. Night Seder is optional in different night kollels where they get paid for that as well.

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

They get paid close to nil. And almost no one doesn't do night seder. They need the money!

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Marty Bluke's avatar

What does that have to do with anything? Salaries are set by the market. I get paid a lot in hi tech because the company that pays me thinks it’s worth it. If I either I don’t produce or the company loses money or decides what I do isn’t worth it anymore I lose my job which has happened to me more than once. With a high salary comes high stress. When is the last time a kollel guy got a frantic call at 10:30 at night that the system is down and it needs to be fixed now and then spent the next few hours going through logs debugging a problem?

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test's avatar

That is all completely irrelevant to vacation time.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

I wrote about the kollel schedule vs work schedule a long time ago. It’s still true today. https://jewishworker.blogspot.com/2015/06/kollel-to-work-transition.html

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Yo Shemesh's avatar

I'm not sure what you guys are trying to prove. If a kollel guy is actually learning really well, he is still being lazy?

As a side, mind you, his wife needs to work harder to make ends meet so he needs to chip in more with the house chores and baby care.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

No one is saying he is lazy. But it’s not a really demanding schedule. See my post https://jewishworker.blogspot.com/2015/06/kollel-to-work-transition.html

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

Have you ever tried learning that long? It's really hard!

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Ephraim's avatar

There are very few things that are not hard to do for 9 hours straight. Maybe sleeping, but possibly not.

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*****'s avatar

I suppose that's why many have all those coffee and schmoozing breaks. Most botei midroshim seem to have a several schmoozers outside at any one moment. I suppose it's better schmoozing outside than inside.

Seriously, why is learning really hard? Hard enough to justify 11 weeks paid vacation?

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Marty Bluke's avatar

Yes I learned full time for years. It’s not harder than working on a complex programming issue.

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Chana Siegel's avatar

A lot of things are really hard. It's very common for soldiers and miluimniks to guard 8 hours on, 8 off, but they do that sometimes. That's probably harder. During internship and residency, doctors may be at the hospital for 24-hour shifts more than once a week, in addition to their regular workday. When I was a hospital nurse, I was frequently asked to work 7AM-2PM, then 11PM-7AM during the same 24 hour period, or 2PM-11PM followed by 7AM-2PM the following morning.

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Eli B's avatar

The myopia is staggering.

I'm an orthodox Jew in my 40s who learnt about 10y ago to think for myself and use my own brain.

But I grew up in the. Charedi yeshiva system and recall that while you're inside it, and being spammed repeatedly by the hanhola of the yeshiva and all the charedi magazines, you genuinely believe you are right, and all the chilonim and DL are wrong. Even though it clearly makes zero sense

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test's avatar

Yes, the echo-chamber. Surrounded by like-minded people since cheider. They don't have the 'keilim' to understand 'the other'.

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

Lol who is the one with myopic vision? Maybe it's actually you with your "it clearly makes no sense" and not those older, wider and more engrossed in God's torah than you?

Oh right, "those rabbis know nothing" anyways.

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Nachum's avatar

"But all of them have easier days,"

Easier than what? Their usual?

Anyway, not to worry: The Mir rosh yeshiva extended the zman to...today.

https://vinnews.com/2024/04/08/mir-rosh-yeshiva-calls-to-extend-winter-zman-until-3rd-of-nissan/

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David Silberman's avatar

The point was made that learning is hard and it can be if one takes it seriously. And learning is enjoyable and creates self satisfaction and most have been lead to believe that they are doing Hashem's wishes. I have been with many serious athletes who take their sport seriously (cycling, skiing, running etc) The training is also hard but it is also enjoyable, addicting, and instills a feeling of accomplishment. These are people who are not going to be professionals in their sports but give it their all, so to speak. The point of R Slifkin is that kollel people do not produce any services or anything tangible. They do not publish, do not lead shiuring for the less religious, do not do outreach, do not do gmelute hasidim to the public. To this end their efforts are selfish. They fill their cerebral tank with lots of Torah but what do they give back? Is it our lot just to learn and not improve the world? Is the midrash (literally and figuratively) the ekar or the maaseh?

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

What if someone is learning because Hashem says that's what we should do? Because someone who has the opportunity to learn and doesn't, even for a minute, is being oiver on a lav d'oraysa according to our poskim. Is that selfish?

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David Silberman's avatar

To what lav d'oraysa are you referring?

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

Now respond to the point please

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Jerry Steinfeld's avatar

Sorry, meant Asei.

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test's avatar

What do the 'many serious athletes' give back?

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David Silberman's avatar

The serious athletes give back nothing. They are "in it" for themselves. There is the dopamine rush, endorphins-feel-good experience. Usually is committed hard work

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Mark's avatar

Worth noting that in DL yeshivas the bein hazmanim is much shorter. Just a couple days before and after Pesach in my experience. Which makes sense as for those students learning is something they want to do, not an excuse to avoid doing other things (army/work).

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Shy Guy's avatar

Yup. I received an email from a Haredi shul with the following subject line:

הוספות בזמני התפילה בשביל הגיבורי חיל שחזרו הביתה להגין על השכונה בלימוד תורתם.

I understand several of my neighbors who have, as of sometime after 10/7, ceased walking into the premises of Haredi institutions or participating in their events.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

That subject line is unbelievable. I'm going to add it to the post. What were the additional tefillah times?

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Shy Guy's avatar

In the mornings, they normally have minyanim almost all the time around the clock. They added in 8AM and 9AM minyanim for their "heroes."

But have no fear! There's also an existing 9:30AM minyan for those Mishmar patrol members whose sustenance is bread with salt, a bissel of water, and who sleep on the beis medrash floor after a hard day's night.

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test's avatar

Minyan factories (including their coincidental swelling bein hazmanim time) are a thorn in the side of my debating partners from the charedi apologetics department on this and on the IM blog. They haven't been able to explain them away (other than the occasional denial that they actually exist) so resort to insults or whataboutism.

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Shy Guy's avatar

This is a Litvishe shteibel. You don't go there for speed davening. They just have the multiple side-by-side facilities to allow for it.

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test's avatar

I am not sure your point, but I have seen people daven very long shemonei esreis, lots of devout shockeling, but well after sof zeman tefillah, l'kol hashittos.

I believe the 'latter prophets' had things to say about that sort of behaviour.

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Shy Guy's avatar

OK. However, this place has no lack of minyanim, beginning with Netz. Also, different varieties of kipot and age groups show up for late minyanim. And, no, I'm not going to take a census. :)

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Shy Guy's avatar

I'd like to be so principled but I've already 'principled' myself years ago out of one nearby haredi shul and any other shul with flexible minyan times is distant.

However, I need to consider this coming Elul whether to continue paying annual membership to the shul. I'm beginning to feel that if they can freebee off of me, I should do the same in return. No, it's not about revenge (to whomever is trying to read my mind).

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Mark's avatar

A serious shailah of "lo titor" I think.

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Shy Guy's avatar

Not just a mind reader.

An uber-chacham mind reader!

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Marty Bluke's avatar

What really bothers me are the charedim who think that learning a Rav Chaim is a much greater intellectual challenge then anything in the world. They’ve never learned advanced mathematics, physics, computer science etc. to compare. I have and while lomdus is on a high intellectual level is it higher then advanced mathematics, or cryptography, game theory, etc.? I don’t think so. Many of the things that I learned in a computer science masters program were harder than understanding a sugya with all the lomdus.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

It depends how well you learn the sugya. Just learning a Rav Chaim is not learning the sugya. I don't know what you call "advanced mathematics" but I studied college level mathematics and with both mathematics and learning, it depends how deep you go. The point is not that learning any sugya at any level is harder than anything you can imagine, it's that learning a sugya properly is hard work. Very hard work. And if you can't appreciate that, then you have never done it.

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Ephraim's avatar

" but I studied college level mathematics "

Examples? Discrete Math or Complex Partial Differential Equations?

Translate the following and reveal its context- it's from an undergraduate course: ord(H) | ord(G)

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

I would have to look at my math texts, as college was a long time ago, and this has no practical bearing on my life, but it looks like something to do with Lagranges theorem. But tell me, do you also believe that you any level of "advanced" math is harder than any level of learning a sugya? If so, then you have never learned a sugya properly.

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Ephraim's avatar

Ok. You know first year undergraduate level math. The most advanced math I studied was something like four times as hard as that. And I suspect that was nowhere a doctoral level.

You're being evasive. You actually haven't told us what "college level" math you've studied. Nor have you defined (even vaguely) what it means to have learned a sugya properly, or whether the average kollel student has achieved that level.

I guess that advanced undergraduate math (i.e. 3rd++ year courses) is only accessible to less than 5% of the population. I don't think that the majority of kollel students meet that level of intellectual ability. Hence they never studied a sugya to your satisfaction. What do you have against them?

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

" The most advanced math I studied was something like four times as hard as that."

Which level math did you study that is "four times as hard as that"? It sounds a meaningless, bombastic statement, since group theory could be studied at very basic or very advanced levels. If I would ask you a random question from an undergraduate textbook on group theory, would you be able to answer? (well, if you are a math professor, I would assume yes. But if you are an engineer or programmer, I would assume no. Just based on my experiences).

"You actually haven't told us what "college level" math you've studied. "

I'm not interested in telling you about my personal life.

If you have learned a sugya properly you wouldn't need me to define it for you.

"I guess that advanced undergraduate math (i.e. 3rd++ year courses) is only accessible to less than 5% of the population. I don't think that the majority of kollel students meet that level of intellectual ability. Hence they never studied a sugya to your satisfaction. What do you have against them?"

Looks like you didn't read my original comment to Marty Bluke at all. I wonder how somebody with such terrible reading comprehension can claim to have studied something "four times as hard as group theory" (whatever that meaningless statement means).

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Ephraim's avatar

You've lost the plot. This whole thread, which I admittedly take some blame for, started with the claim that kollel guys are justified in 10 weeks vacation because they work so hard. How do they work so hard? You claim it's because learning a sugya is much harder than Phd level physics or math. Marty questions you entire claim. I didn't challenge your claim, but was skeptical if you actually knew how difficult advanced math is. Given your evasion, I stand by that skepticism. There is nothing bombastic in mentioning that I never studied math that was more than four times harder than "first year undergraduate level math." For anybody in the math world, it's a admission of failure. For anyone else, it could be mistaken for bombast.

But all this is irrelevant. Because if you declared that such learning is more advanced than what <1% of the population are capable of, than the vast majority of kollel students are by your standards not learning that hard. So why so much vacation? Why should the kollel masses, talented and dedicated as they may be, have lengthy vacations that are only justified by the hard work done by the kollel elite?

Or is there another reason for the long vacations?

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Marty Bluke's avatar

It amazes me how defensive you are. Learning a sugya is an intellectual exercise. So are many other things. Learning is not inherently more difficult than other intellectual endeavors and in some ways is easier.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

Neither is mathematics. It amazes me how hostile you are. Why not just accept that there are many people who can learn a sugya on a much higher level than you?

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Marty Bluke's avatar

How do you know that? You never met me. I’m not hostile. It just annoys me when people make silly statements about Torah learning with no basis in fact.

There is a famous story about someone who learned in Volozhin under Rav Chaim and then worked with Einstein. Someone asked him who was the bigger genius? He answered that Rav Chaim was a great basal masbir but in terms of sheer intellect it was Einstein. The charedi world couldn’t handle that.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

"It just annoys me when people make silly statements about Torah learning with no basis in fact."

And it annoys me also, which is why I take issue with your comments.

Not really sure why random stories of unnamed people which Marty Bluke claims "the chareidi world couldn't handle that" has to do with anything.

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*****'s avatar

Yeah, we know the talk. It's all brainwashing. Spoken by people who don't have a clue about dvanced mathematics, physics, computer science etc. to compare.

"And if you can't appreciate that, then you have never done it."

Cult leader "If you have faith in our cult, real faith, you can move that tree"

Follower: "I tried, I fasted, I flogged myself, I had faith, but the tree didn't move"

Cult leader "Well, its clear you did not have enough faith. If you did, the tree would move".

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

But the thing is, lots of people know about advanced mathematics, physics, computer science to compare. Like myself and many others I know. I doubt you have a clue about advanced mathematics.

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Ephraim's avatar

", lots of people know about advanced mathematics, physics, computer science to compare. "

No. Saying "quantum", "Turing" , "Cantor" or "Godel" doesn't mean "knowing". It means the meager achievement of recognizing a buzzword. The most basic concepts in advanced physics requires complex differential equations. Lots? Nonsense. I doubt even "lots' would apply to someone who could recognize a complex differential equation, let alone solve one.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

Yes. Lots of people with masters or PhDs in computer science, engineering, or mathematics. Yes, I know lots of people like that. That is all I will tell without giving away my location. I'm not sure why that is so hard to believe. What, in your community, is everybody uneducated numbskulls?

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Ephraim's avatar

"What, in your community, is everybody uneducated numbskulls?"

That's an anti-social statement.

For your own safety, I humbly plead that you don't repeat that to those who don't have a graduate degree in such fields.

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test's avatar

Lots of people? Really? In Yeshivaland?. The mashgichim, high school rebbes etc who spout that gemoroh learning is as hard as [insert your choice here] really know those disciplines? It's the same people that claim gemoroh teaches maths yet every sugyoh involving kabbin, seloim, selah medina/tzuri etc was a closed book for many and skipped or not dealt with properly until Artscroll came along.

Pul the other one, its got bells on...

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Marty Bluke's avatar

I seriously doubt you really know about advanced mathematics. College level mathematics is one thing PhD level mathematics is a whole different level.

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

I don't know PhD level mathematics, but I know several people who do and they don't think it's harder than learning a sugya in depth. Go figure.

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test's avatar

I have no doubt that the soldier from the war is currently writing a 'guest post' explaining why the vast majoriry of DL/RZ people have no issues with the hypocry involved in having bein hazmanim in the middle of a war. Only a few chareidi haters have an issue.

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Yakov's avatar

When I was in kollel and the yeshiva we despised the bein hazmanim and learned full time and my wife worked regular hours. I've never been on a being azmanim trip or a vacation, but granted we were fanatical.

Slifkin after one good and one ok post is back to the insanity of insasantly bashing the charedim. Incidentally, many of my secular and MO relatives have flown abroad for vacations, 2 got פרופיל 21 and are chilling. Life isn't black and white and takes place in the gray area.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

Doesn't address the point of my post.

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Marty Bluke's avatar

You are clearly in the very small minority. Just go to Teverya in Ab and you will see.

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Ephraim's avatar

What's emerging is that there's a significant percent of charedim who are not learning full time. And then there's a percent who learn full time (but little overtime) , but not with a high level of dedication and/or ability. And then there's the elite. And then there's the elite of the elite who may actually meet the standard of the רמב"ם as being comparable to שבט לוי.

But the masses demand an exemption on account of the elite.

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Uriah’s Wife's avatar

Did you see that?

It wasn’t the military’s iron dome rockets that protected Israel, it was the chareidi Torah thunderbolts that destroyed all those Iranian drones.

As soon as I realised that Jerusalem was under attack I immediately stopped eliminating every micro-gram of chametz in my home and instantly began intoning

שור שנגח את הפרה, שור שנגח את הפרה,.

And you know what? Hashem instantly became aware that Israel was under attack and seized on my ruminations to protect everyone.

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test's avatar

No doubt you got stuck on wondering why the mishnah gave the example of poroh and not shor. Just like those two bochurim that spent three hours on the question and didn't move on.

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Uriah’s Wife's avatar

@test,

Since I’m Chiloni, it didn’t take me at least 3 hours to elucidate why.

The שור was horny and the פרה wasn’t.

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test's avatar

What do you mean? Everywhere else its shor shenogach as hashor?

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Dov Kagan's avatar

I recently went on a work trip to China. The plane to Thailand was packed to the gills with Israelis of all ages going on vacation. However Bein Hazmanim is really especially terrible during war time. By the way serious bochrim and avreichim learn the majority of their vacation anyway. So again this is just another Chareidi bashing rage post. (I will admit I like the idea of staggered vacations alot and hope it will be used)

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Nachum's avatar

None of those people going on vacation claim that their work keeps Israel safe.

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Yaakov Abraham's avatar

One issue is, that Israel sits squarely on top of Eretz Yisrael.

If only the people who run Israel would run it how Eretz Yisrael should be run.

If only they would respect and consult those who know how, instead of fomenting hate, divisiveness and disgust for Hashem's servants.

Who knows if this war would have started?

The psychotic allowance and accounting of collateral damage would bow to the Torah's respect for every life.

Who knows if this infiltration would have been allowed to take place. Who knows if the army would have different aims and a lot more soldiers?

Isn't Shalom the greatest shield?

Wouldn't we probably be granted much more success from Hashem "Ish Milchama"?

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

Who are the people who know how Eretz Yisrael should be run?

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Yaakov Abraham's avatar

Admittedly,

Many of them are gone by now; opportunities lost and political lines more deeply driven.

But I believe if they knew they would given a safe and respected platform ,there are still great and selfless talmidim chachamim alive today- (who altruistically love Hashem and Jews) from all the chuggim that could meet and come up with solid guidance.

Yes, no one is perfect and with each person you can find flaws.

That's easy.

But, again, I posit the dismal situation in Israel now is a byproduct of hate of Torah Judaism. That fight is not 75 years old....

We need to be more positive and accepting in teaching our message and they need to be open to acceptance of that guidance.

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ChanaRachel's avatar

..and why would the non-Chareidi public want guidance from Talmidei Chachamim who have never studied English or math beyond the 5th grade levels, and have no knowledge of economics, healthcare systems, science & technology, and -yes- no understanding of the workings of the military...and barely acknowledge the State as more than a tenants association?

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Marty Bluke's avatar

People like this http://ajewwithquestions.blogspot.com/2016/09/can-modern-state-be-run-according-to.html

“the Bostoner Rebbe spoke at a news conference and said the following:

אני מפחד מהיום שיהיו 61 חברי כנסת, כי אני לא יודע איך ניתן לנהל מדינה עם האחריות של שמירת התורה. לדוגמה, לסגור את שדה התעופה בשבת, בעולם המודרני אני לא יודע איך אפשר לעשות את זה". ובכנות הוסיף ש"ברוך השם שלא באים לשאול אותי שאלות כאלה".

I am afraid of the day when we have 61 MKs because I don't know how you can run a state with the responsibilities of keeping the Torah. For example, shutting down the airport on Shabbos, in the modern world I don't see how you can do that. And in a moment of candour he added "Thank God that no one comes to ask me these types questions"

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Ban Ki-moon's avatar

Ok, these are old questions. Let's get there and we'll figure it out. We have to keep in mind Torah is infinitely more important than having a modern country.

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Natan Slifkin's avatar

Hmmm, so are you suggesting that charedim need to make sure that they don't become the majority?

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Ephraim's avatar

"We have to keep in mind Torah is infinitely more important than having a modern country."

And learning Torah is more important than eating cheese. Yet, most Gedolim have eaten cheese.

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