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Dovid Y. Kornreich's avatar

How can you say Chareidim--even generally speaking-- are against secular studies and are underemployed when nearly all chareidi girls get an excellent secular education and go on to have gainful employment? Combine that with the small percentage of men who obtain a secular education and/or are gainfully employed, and you have well over HALF the chareidi population in favor of secular education and gainful employment.

Why are you just discounting all these chareidi women and girls?

Are you a male chauvinist who severely undervalues women's contributions in society?

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iWe's avatar

When people generalize about people in other categories than themselves, they should ask themselves the questions: who is my audience? What am I trying to achieve?

If the audience is people in your own group, and you want to be popular with them, then it is easiest to make broad generalizations about others. Pointing out how great you are and how not-great Others are is a sure-fire recipe.

If, on the other hand, you want to actually change the way other people think, then you need to see things from the perspective of that other person before formulating the argument. Otherwise the audience puts up defensive shields, and nothing - besides sinas chinam - will be accomplished. In general, people could work on this. I know that I always have to keep reminding myself!

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