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Jerry Dobin's avatar

Perhaps Israel should experiment with a month in which Chareidim no longer learn on behalf of the country, and the rest of the country withdraws all police and military protection, as well as financial support, from the Chareidim? Seems fair, and we'll find out soon enough which side contributed more.

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ChayaD's avatar

Rabbi Slifkin, please continue to write and to be an advocate for those of us in Israel whose hearts are in such pain from the utter disregard of the Charedi community.

I think it is fair to truthfully note that they are a parasitic entity, even if you want to avoid the term in its specific context. They rely on the economics, education, and work of other people to function, as does a parasitic entity in the biological world.

As demonstrated by the gathering in Har Nof, the Israeli version of Charedi life is entrenched in fantasy and delusion. I have seen it firsthand. However the Anglo Charedi community differs here because, ultimately, some of them know better and -when they allow themselves to- they can see very clearly through the drivel and polemics. In their gut, they know something is wrong with the current equation. My husband had a conversation last week with a lovely Anglo Charedi businessman in our community, and he candidly admitted he feels awful that his sons aren't serving. He chose a Charedi path when he got to Israel from the US and now he feels stuck. He is able to acknowledge that the message of his sons being "warriors" in yeshiva is untrue. It keeps him up at night.

I think he speaks for a small but significant portion of families caught in the current Charedi system. I think that it is from this branch that change may ultimately happen. I will hope that they will find a way to make it so.

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